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How to Warm Up Your Personal Lube for Intimacy?

Follow these tips so you can ease seamlessly into intimacy with your partner. Avoid dryness when you need it the least For many women, lack of moisture during intimacy is normal. Roughly 17% of females between the ages 18 to 50 experience dryness during sex. Which is why K-Y® lubricants have always been an easy remedy. But, there are those times when you want your lubricant to turn up the heat, literally. If you’re particularly sensitive to cold, or if you’re using lubricants for the first time, you may want to warm it up to body temperature or purchase a warming lube. Follow these tips so you can ease seamlessly into intimacy with your partner. There are those times when you want your lubricant to turn up the heat Use your body heat If you prefer to use a non-warming lubricant, you...

How to Be a Better Lover?

Got an FWB coming over in 30 minutes and want tips stat? Or planning to get your flirt (and freak) on at the bar tonight? These tips are for you. Listen to your partner’s verbal and non-verbal cues Carly S., pleasure expert and founder of Dildo or Dildon’t, says there’s one caveat to the “It’s not possible to be bad in bed” thesis statement. “If you’re completely ignoring your partner’s attempts to communicate with you, and steamrolling them into doing whatever you want, you’re a bad lover,” she says. TBH, at this point, you’re not having sex with your partner — you’re violating them. Your move: Tune into what your partner is saying with their words, mouths, hands, and body. Communicate, communicate, communicate “Your partner isn’t a mind-reader,” Stubbs says. “For them to know what you do and don’t like, you have to tell them.” For the record, she says, communicating can be as simple as saying: “That feels good! How does it feel for you?” “Yes! That!” “A little more pressure, ...