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Got an FWB coming over in 30 minutes and want tips stat? Or planning to get your flirt (and freak) on at the bar tonight? These tips are for you. Listen to your partner’s verbal and non-verbal cues Carly S., pleasure expert and founder of Dildo or Dildon’t, says there’s one caveat to the “It’s not possible to be bad in bed” thesis statement. “If you’re completely ignoring your partner’s attempts to communicate with you, and steamrolling them into doing whatever you want, you’re a bad lover,” she says. TBH, at this point, you’re not having sex with your partner — you’re violating them. Your move: Tune into what your partner is saying with their words, mouths, hands, and body. Communicate, communicate, communicate “Your partner isn’t a mind-reader,” Stubbs says. “For them to know what you do and don’t like, you have to tell them.” For the record, she says, communicating can be as simple as saying: “That feels good! How does it feel for you?” “Yes! That!” “A little more pressure, ...