Athiya Shetty is going to be KL Rahul's bride after dating for 4 years, know when should couples decide to get married?

Athiya Shetty and India's famous cricketer KL Rahul are going to tie the knot today i.e. on January 23. Many Bollywood and famous celebrities will attend their wedding. After dating each other for almost 4 years, today both the couples will take seven rounds. Athiya Shetty and KL Rahul had a sangeet function before the wedding, many glimpses of which have come to the media. Before marriage, both have been in live-in-relationship. After this they have decided to get married. Their families are also very happy with this decision of Athiya and KL Rahul. There are many such couples, Those who get married in a hurry but after marriage, estrangement starts between them. In such a situation, cracks start appearing in the relationship. Such couples need to think twice before taking the decision of marriage. For information on this subject, we spoke to Dr. Neera Srivastava, Professor of Psychology, Vijayaraje College, Gwalior. Let us know when should couples take the decision of marriage?

right age for marriage Age matters first for marriage. Dr. Neera says that it is very important to look at the age before marriage. Some children decide to get married at an early age, which can later spoil their relationships. For marriage in India, the age of the boy should be 21 years and the age of the girl should be 18 years. But it is not necessary that you have become 21 or 18 then you have become eligible for marriage. The doctor says that for marriage if the age of the boy is between 25 to 27 years and the age of the girl is between 22 to 25 years, which can be the perfect age for them. Because couples of this age are very sensible. If the ideas of couples meet, then the pair can be very good. Dr. Neera says that before taking the decision of marriage, you need to pay attention to each other's thoughts. If your thoughts match each other, then it becomes easier to maintain the relationship. For example, if you are fond of traveling and the person in front is also, then both of you will enjoy any trip. On the other hand, if one is fond of traveling and the other is not, then it can lead to a lot of difficulties. need to be financially strong You need to be financially strong before taking the decision of marriage. That's why never take the decision of marriage with financial constraints. No matter how much you love each other, financial constraints after marriage can put a lot of strain on the relationship. That's why try to take the decision of marriage only after becoming financially strong. So if you are just starting your career, then stop for a few years and focus on your career. After this, when you feel that you have become financially strong, then both of you together decide to get married. Your family members will also like this. Give the family a chance to understand Couples always need to understand themselves after giving a chance to other family members to understand. Actually, after marriage, when you do not understand each other's family, then there is a problem in adjusting. Because of this, there may be cracks in your relationships as well. That's why you must meet your partner with your family members before marriage. Also spend some time with each other's family members. This will make your relationship stronger . The decision of marriage is not made in haste. Before taking this decision, you need to take care of these important things.